SHY GUY

Practice Talking With Women

scott — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 23:29:53 +0000

When you’re a shy guy you need to make sure that you practice at becoming less shy and the best way to do that is through practicing common flaws we face. You need to be able to hold a conversation with a women and if you can’t do that then you need to practice. There are lots of ways you can practice talking with women and you should take advantage of all of them whenever you’re able too.

You will be able to practice talking with women at restaurants, gyms, sporting events and many other places. It’s a lot easier I find too talk with women when you’re just hanging out and it can be good practice for when you’re out on a date. Practicing in a group is also easier I find because then there is a lot less pressure on your mind.

When it’s just you and your date though you need to be able to hold a conversation, and if you can’t then don’t expect many second dates. Don’t be discouraged if you feel you can’t because many of us shy guys have trouble talking with women, but make sure you look forward and practice on your flaws.

-Scott

Pick-Up Lines Don’t Work

scott — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:28:25 +0000

Don’t believe some of the junk you read on the internet because I’ve seen all over the place people mentioning to use pick-up lines to find dates. Now although some people may have had success with this in grade seven it isn’t going to fly when you’re in college, university or the real world. Sleazy pick-up lines are frowned upon by women and although you may get a laugh out of them it isn’t going to land you a date with any type of women, especially one you want to be with.

There is a lot of great information to learn on the internet, but the last guy a shy guy needs to do is go out and try using some pick-up line to find a date. It will only lower your confidence, and trust me I’ve tried the pick-up line game in the past to no avail. Take my word for it there is no room in your arsenal for pick-up lines, instead you need to do things that will get you a date. There are tons of ways to help assist in getting you a date that don’t involved anything unethical or sleazy and you’re sure to attract the right women this way.

You need to learn what women really want, and there will be tons of opportunities for this on the blog shortly. I have a strong desire to make this blog run like clockwork, but I would like the communities help in offering advice. I have just added the contact form to the blog now, and I hope I get some good submissions from some of you guys shortly.

-Scott

Symptoms of Shy Guys

scott — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:25:53 +0000

Believe it or not there is actually a whole list of symptoms that shy guys will begin feeling when we’re about too approach a women. If you’re suffering from the symptoms listed below then you know that you’re classified in the shy guy category and can do some work to move yourself into the confident category. I have noticed many of these symptoms personally and too be quite honest I still have to deal with some of the symptoms on this list.

- Uncontrolled Breathing
- Shakiness
- Over-Thinking
- Stuttering
- Confused
- Deep Swallowing
- Sweatiness
- Fear of Failure
- Weird Feeling Around Body
- Loss of Speech

All of these common symptoms are what we shy guys need to overcome and there are still more that I could add to the list, but this is good for now. If you see yourself feeling these different symptoms when talking or approaching a woman then you definitely should stick around this blog. We will be discussing each of these symptoms closely in the next little while as I have time, and soon we will all be able to overcome these common symptoms of all us deal with.

-Scott

The Golden Rule of Dating for Shy Guys

scott — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 03:04:34 +0000

There is one golden rule for all shy guys to help overcome their problems and that is confidence. Everything that I’ve read and learnt all has to closely do with building up your confidence, and it’s completely true. There are definitely many specialized tactics and techniques which we will discuss at a later time, but the number one rule is too possess confidence. If you don’t have any confidence when you’re out dating then you need to work on it because it’s definitely why everything seems to be failing.

No matter what you do on your date do it with confidence and you’ll notice that you start getting a lot more second dates. Over time you will start growing confidence as you move into second dates and relationships, but you need to force the confidence in the beginning. It may sound awkward to force yourself too be confident but it is something that you need to do.

I ensure that if you work on your confidence then you will start seeing a huge increase in your second date conversions. It’s all about moving into second and third dates with women because that’s when the magic happens. The problem with us shy guys is getting to that second date, but confidence along with other things we’ll discuss will help your begin securing those dates.

-Scott

Common Shy Guy Characteristics

scott — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 02:15:11 +0000

If you’re a shy guy then you probably know some of the common characteristics that are already plaguing you. We’ll take a look at some of the general ideas that are stuck in our heads, and we will try and do what we can to break this thought process and move into a better mind state.

Nervous Around Women

The first and most common characteristic that all of us shy guys have to deal with is being nervous in the presence of women. I always use to get sweaty hands and couldn’t think of anything to say when I was around women, but when I was with just my buddies I was always making everyone laugh. I couldn’t understand it for awhile, but then over time I’ve learned some great tips for avoiding being nervous around women.

Scared To Talk To a Girl You Like

I know that whenever I was interested in a girl a few years ago I would always just keep it too myself. What this did was stopped me from ever getting into a relationship with any of the women I was interested in and eventually the women would become unavailable anyways, You need to act fast and let a women know how you feel about her, especially if you have strong feelings for this women.

There are many shy guy characteristics that we will look at throughout the next little while, but this will give us a foundation to begin working on our shyness. The two characteristics above are very good beginning to start looking at things you may already be doing. It’s getting late here tonight so I will be back on here tomorrow posting more articles, and I’ll be looking for some interactivity tomorrow on the blog.

-Scott

Welcome to my Blog

scott — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 01:31:32 +0000

My name is Scott and I’d like to welcome all of you guys here who are shy just like me. Being shy generally sucks and you often end up the chicks friend more times then anything else, I found that we need to open up to be able to pursue any relationships. I understand first hand though how difficult it is even though how hard you may try to actually conversate, and without conversation you will not be very successful. Once you learn to talk with girls then you’ll have a much better chance at finding dates.

I will be doing my best to help serve up my first hand advice too everyone interested and I hope that we all can communicate with each other and share tips. I’m still a working progress in my opinion so I’m always open to suggestions and tips. If you think you can offer some advice or tips and would like too then make sure you send me a message using the contact form. Include the article in it and make sure it’s unique content, and then if it’s helpful information I will add it here to the blog with credit to the author.

I look forward to finding more dates and look forward to trying out new things with all of you interested shy guys looking for some dating techniques. Generally people say shy guys will finish last, but if you think about it with a few little tweaks we can do better in dating and relationships then any other type of guy.

-Scott